The tables have turned, and changed.
Mr. Just-wants-to-makeout-on-his-couch now wants me as a girlfriend and won't stop calling and emailing even after telling him "I don't want to hang out with anyone right now. I have a lot of shit going on." When I wanted to be his he had no interest but to get into my pants. Which of course insulted me. So now, I don't answer his calls. And he actually asks me to do stuff now I would really have liked to do before.
Mr. When-I-save-up-enough-$-I'm-moving-in-with-you is the absolute worst at communication. I haven't had even a text for 3 days now and counting. I've completely lost interest and am irritated at the thought of him now. How can someone REALLY think everything will just magically fall into place when they move away from their troubles. It is a grave error and a sure failure to any possible future relationship if he can't even call the person he claims to want to fall in love with.
Mr. Oh-meet-my-fiance must think he is just the king of the world, the smartest, sneakiest guy around. In reality he is a pathetic drunk continually embarrassing his unknowing fiance. He actually sent me an email asking me if he could stay with me for a week to "write his new album". What a jackass. Last time I saw him was a nightmare. I literally dodged him for hours. And when I couldn't he was pressed up next to me with his hand squeezing my hip or arm across my shoulder. And she, was sadly right there on the opposite side of him. Completely clueless. Poor girl.
Mr. Oh-meet-my-fiance also added a new degree of creepy when he tried to "put in a good word" for his friend. Who is a mutual friend of mine that I had no idea liked me like that.
Mr. Break-up-over-a-text-message seems to have a renewed interest in me all of the sudden and I have no idea why. I guess if you no longer have an interest or are still confident after being dumped it only makes some guys want you more later on. He actually tries to contact me now in ways he didn't before and asks me to hang out with him. And not just sit on the couch and watch a movie, but road trips. Big step for this guy.
Mr. Dancin-in-the-moonlight still sends me a text now and then. I sent him a text with a few days warning that I'd be in his town and didn't hear back. But then literally as I was walking to my car to leave he called. Which is unheard of, he only texts. He begged me to stay the night with him. And he was nearby, but had called to late. He talked about wanting to visit me and he may really want to be it is unlikely to happen. I had the chance to see him again recently but decided not to make the drive. But I have a feeling we'll meet again.
Mr. We-got-stuck-in-an-elevator doesn't call nearly as much these days. And that happens after time and distance. Always does to me anyway. But at least when he does call we still talk for hours. It is much more than for what I can say for most people that claim to really care for me. I really hope he found himself an awesome girl and isn't just working too much as usual. He's trying pretty hard to be a good person. I think he is one already even if he has his doubts.
Mr. New-guy-in-town is also my newest crush. He made me snap back into reality about sitting around waiting on calls night after night. And all he had to do was open his mouth. Communication, my absolute favorite thing. And really good, meaningful conversation at that...over coffee. Perfect. And he actually says stuff at the end of a text message like "How are you today?" Nobody ever seems to ask me first. So of course I think he's pretty genuine and a good hearted person.
Its always feast or famine in relations and personalities it seems.